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Divorce & Separation Guides

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Separation and divorce often bring a number of practical decisions that need to be addressed over time.

People may need to consider arrangements for children, financial matters, housing, and how communication will work moving forward. It is common to feel unsure where to begin.

The guides below explain common stages of separation, how different approaches to resolving disagreements work, and how mediation may help people reach practical agreements.

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Understanding Separation

Start here if you are beginning to navigate separation or divorce.

Separation and Divorce: Step-by-Step Guide

An overview of the typical stages people go through when separating and the decisions that often need to be addressed.

How to Separate Amicably

Practical guidance on managing separation in a constructive and cooperative way where possible.

Divorce from the Child’s Perspective

A closer look at what to expect during mediation sessions and how discussions are managed.

Resolving Disputes and Decisions

Mediation vs Solicitors vs Court

A comparison of different approaches to resolving family disputes and how they differ in practice.

Guide to Financial Settlement in Divorce

An overview of how financial arrangements may be considered and resolved during separation or divorce.

Common Questions About Separation

Divorce Myths

Common misunderstandings about divorce and how the process actually works.

Is Mediation Suitable if we don’t get along?

Guidance for situations where communication is difficult but structured discussion may still be possible.

Taking the Next Step

Family Mediation

If you would like to understand how mediation works as a structured way to discuss arrangements following separation, you may find it helpful to read:

MIAM

If you need to arrange an initial assessment meeting to explore whether mediation may be appropriate: