Attending a MIAM does not commit you to mediation
This article is part of our MIAM & Court Process Guides, which explain how MIAMs relate to mediation and the family court process.

Understanding the role of MIAMs in the family court process
If you are considering making an application to the family court, you may be required to attend a MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) first.
In most cases, the court expects mediation to be considered before proceedings begin unless a recognised exemption applies.
MIAMs sit at a specific point in the process. Their purpose is to ensure that mediation has been considered before court proceedings are started.


In most cases, the family court expects you to attend a MIAM before submitting an application relating to:

The MIAM takes place before a court application is issued, not after.
This requirement applies whether you intend to pursue mediation or proceed directly to court.
MIAMs were introduced to help reduce unnecessary court proceedings and encourage earlier resolution where appropriate.
The court recognises that:

A MIAM provides a structured way to consider these options before court action is taken.

This confirmation is provided through a MIAM certificate, signed by a mediator.
Without this confirmation, a court application may be delayed or rejected.
After attending a MIAM, you can decide how to proceed. Attending a MIAM ensures that the court requirement is met so your application can move forward without delay.

If both people wish to take part and it appears appropriate, mediation sessions can be arranged.
If mediation does not go ahead, you can continue with a court application. In this situation, the mediator can sign the MIAM certificate confirming that mediation has been considered.


There are circumstances where attending a MIAM may not be required before making a court application.
Common exemptions include situations where:

Further guidance:
As part of standard practice, the mediator will usually notify the other person that a MIAM has taken place and invite them to arrange their own MIAM.
This contact is handled professionally and neutrally.
If you have concerns about contact taking place, these can be discussed during your MIAM
In simple terms, MIAMs sit between:

They provide a clear point in the process where options can be understood and the next step can be decided.

Understanding how MIAMs fit into the court process can make the steps ahead clearer.
If you are deciding whether a MIAM applies in your situation, you may find these guides helpful:
If you would like to understand MIAM appointments as a service or arrange a meeting, you can also read: MIAM
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